"I would as soon leave my son a curse as the almighty dollar." -- Andrew Carnegie
Let's blame it on parental DNA. Somewhere deep in the marrow of our bones, many of us believe it is an act of love, generosity--or pursuit of forgiveness--to leave our children an inheritance. Sometimes we even convince ourselves that the more money we leave, the greater our act of love! However, is it possible the assumption that our kids will benefit from, and appreciate, our gift is flawed? Could it be that leaving money to our children after we die is a zero-sum game? Said another way, is it possible that for everything we give our children, we take something else away?